No, you don't have to blow your bank account buying her expensive gifts or taking her to fancy restaurants. No, you don't have to read her romantic poems and serenading love songs to her. All you need to do is to make a mental and emotional connection.

The first thing you must do is to make her feel and appreciate that you are more than just another guy. You need to make her feel you are the one for her. If not, there is no reason for her to choose you over other guys, isn't it? So how do you go about doing that?

Sincerity. Whether knowingly or unknowingly, most guys when with a woman they love tends to put up an act. They will become extra nice, ultra polite and some even tell lies about who they are in an effort to impress the girl.

This is not the real you and as you know, women have very sharp intuition and will be able to see through the real you sooner than later. By then, you would have loss any trust and respect she may have for you. If the trust and respect is not there, how could she ever fall in love with you?

So you don't have to be all serious with her. Let loose a bit and have fun together. When both of you are having fun and doing fun things together, you are forging an emotional bonding. So be playful as being too serious is dull and boring and she may form the impression that you are a boring guy and how can you expect her to want to spend the rest of her life with a boring guy who does not know how to loosen up and have fun?

This attitude alone will put you way over other guys who are vying for her attention because most guys are acting much too serious with the girls they like or are trying to court. Furthermore, you will come away with being your natural self and you don't have to put on an agonizing act of being a serious person.

The next sentence may come as a surprise to many of you. Occasionally have women around you and be comfortable in their company. You need not set your sights on just one girl until you stop interacting with other women.

Women are strange creatures. They need to see that other girls want to be with you in order to see that you are desirable. This will make her realized that she is also in the chase and wants to keep you for herself.

When she realized that you are the one for her, a mental and emotional switch is flipped and suddenly you have made her fall in love with you.